Celebrating New Life after Divorce

New Horizons Weekend of Healing

Early explorers viewed the horizon as a doorway to a new country, a new life with new opportunities. This weekend is your doorway into a new future.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is the New Horizons weekend?

The New Horizons experience is an opportunity for you: a divorced person in and around southeast Wisconsin, to pause and examine your life--your strengths and weaknesses, your hurts, desires, ambitions, disappointments, joys, and frustrations. This is done openly and honestly in a Christ-like manner. It is a weekend away from the tensions of everyday living. It is a time for listening and talking--to yourself, to others, to God.

The New Horizons experience is designed to help each participant embark upon a new phase of life. While special attention is given to the spiritual aspects of our experience, the weekend is meant to provide the participant with a comprehensive sense of direction on this journey.

2. Who is it for?

The New Horizons Weekend is for those men and women, already divorced, who want to discover a new life and have already started to grow in this direction. Those divorced either recently or for years will find the weekend rewarding. This program can also be beneficial for those who have experienced a long term separation with no chance of reconciliation. Please contact Marie Grevsmuehl, Adult & Family Ministry, for further details.

3. Where is the weekend held?

The New Horizons Weekend meets at one of several retreat centers in Southeast Wisconsin. The retreat center assigned to each weekend is given in the retreat calendar. Approximate geography can be inferred from the retreat map.

4. What happens on the weekend?

The New Horizons Weekend is directed by a team of divorced persons, along with a chaplain. It runs from Friday evening until Sunday afternoon. The structure of the weekend consists of:
  • Presentations: These are given by members of the team and describe experiences which relate to different aspects of marriage; and the experience of separation and divorce.
  • Personal Reflections: You are given private time to reflect on your own experiences.
  • Small Group Sharing: The group setting affords you the opportunity to rediscover the strengths and joys of life within yourself and with others. You share only what you choose to in a comfortable and safe environment.

The weekend is not a retreat in the sense of being a two-day withdrawal from the world. It is a weekend of involvement.

5. How much does it cost?

The cost is $150.00. This includes the entire weekend, five meals and lodging. Dress is casual. Financial assistance is available.

Participants' comments

"This weekend opened the door to the healing process."

"I was able to put closure on my marriage and put the past in perspective."

"I was given the opportunity to move through anger and sorrow to foregiveness."

"Others' honesty and openness helped me to be real."

"I gained new hope for the future."

"I appreciated the caring and support of the team.

"The non-judgmental atmosphere allowed me to share my feelings."

"I was given permission to hurt as well as laugh and not feel threatened by being a divorced person."

The ONCA, an ancient Egyptian symbol of new life, was adopted by the early Christians as a sign of new life in Christ. The ONCA has also been adopted by New Horizons as its symbol. The arc traversing the lower part of the figure represents the horizon of a new day. The combined symbols are centered in an oval, the shape which signifies wholeness and the beginning of new life.


New Horizons Calendar

2006

March 24, 25, and 26

Schoenstatt Retreat Center, Waukesha

August 11, 12, and 13

Holy Hill Retreat Center, Hubertus

November 10, 11, and 12

St. Vincent Palotti, Elkhorn

Contact a Chaplain

Fr. Philip Reifenberg


Ms. Marianne F. Skrobiak, M.S., M.A.


Ms. Donna Pinsoneault


Details

Registration MUST BE RECEIVED at least one week prior to the weekend date.

Arrival for a New Horizons weekend is on Friday night between 7:00 and 7:30 pm. The weekend opens formally at 8:00 pm on Friday and concludes between 3:00 and 3:30 pm on Sunday.

For more information contact:

Marie Grevsmuehl ()
Separated and Divorced Ministry
Adult and Family Ministry for the Archdiocese of Milwaukee
(414)769-3441
(800)769-9373, x441 (within the 10 county Milwaukee Archdiocese)

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